Do you find this shocking? Farting, the thing you try to avoid so frantically in front of other people particularly your partner, can actually be beneficial for your relationship. You may wonder how that is plausible, and isn’t your partner going to be bothered by the very deed, but read on, and you might change your view.
Mamy people try to show the best of themselves in front of their partner in order to make them fall in love. This doesn’t mean just avoiding letting one go in front of them, but also to do many other normal, everyday activities.
But, a lasting relationship is formed on sincerity and trust, and you can only accomplish that by being as natural as you can. This is even confirmed by Leah Decesare in her book called Naked Parenting. She explains the secrets of parenting and maintaining a lasting relationship.
Leah Decesare on Farting in Front of Your Partner
The author describes the moment when she accidentally farted in front of her husband for the first time. In fact, he remembers this moment even though it was over 20 years ago. Obviously, her husband’s first impression after hearing her fart was “I want to marry this woman.”
He felt closer than ever, and he knew he’d always be with her. He enjoyed the fact that she let him into a different personal space. The moment she crossed the Toot-Line, her husband felt free to fart in front of too.
A solid marriage should be built on honesty, acceptance, and truth. In other words, a cozy spot where you can be free and completely yourself to the tiniest detail. It’s unlike other relationships. Women are normally too shy to fart even in a public restroom because somebody may hear them.
They hold it and wait until alone to ultimately let it out. However, this should be different with your partner. Be free and natural in front of them and don’t be shy of passing gas. Of course, we don’t say you should do it in front of strangers, but only when you two are alone.
Leah reveals that farting in front of your partner creates empathy, making you closer and even more charming to them. It’s a test to see if you can be 100% you, in front of each other.
Farting is Healthy
What’s more, farting is a normal process just like laughter and tears. It’s even unhealthy to hold it in. Dr. Oz describes it can cause stomach pain, cramps, and even bloating. Plus, you shouldn’t hide or ignore that part of you even though you share the most private things with your partner.
The average person passes about half a liter of gas in a day. So, this amount of gas has to come out at some point.
A Part of the Marriage
That’s right. You vow to stick together in sickness and health and to share everything. This is thought to bring you closer and make you stronger. Be honest to make your marriage steady and lasting. Be natural and don’t abstain yourself from doing normal stuff in front of each other.
This way, you’ll build and keep a solid foundation. This includes farting in front of your partner. It’s just a sign of your close and intimate connection with them. What’s more, they can make you laugh together, and a couple who laughs when alone is eternally a happy couple.
It will lead to laughter and happiness and overall a very comfortable and casual relationship. Hiding an integral part of yourself just to appear prim and proper makes no sense. Be honest with each other to build up a beautiful, healthy and happy relationship that can make both of you feel free and safe individually as well as together for life.